But still I’m lucky enough to be able to go back to Klang most of the weekend and enjoy my time with them and mom’s cooking. Come to think about it, it’s actually a good thing for them to move up to Klang. But still, I would prefer to stay in Kluang. J
Enrolling a university really change your life, your perspective towards life and also people around you. You get the opportunities to meet different people with all kinds of attitudes and style. Some whom you really cannot stand sometimes or some whom you really enjoy spending time with.
Back in Kluang, I didn’t really meet anyone who has attitude problems. Ya, there is some unhappy issues sometimes but they were usually solved or forgotten in a short period. But from what I experienced here, it is quite shocking for me. Haha… Maybe I shouldn’t use “shocking” but that is the best way to describe how I feel about it.
Friends will always be friends. That’s how I feel when I spent 19 years in Kluang. Friends will not get angry over small matters. Friends will not be angry if you’ve forgotten to ask them to join you for lunch and choose not to talk to you after that (even if it has been a month). Friends will not get angry and ignore you completely even if you choose to move out after sharing the same room with them for a year. Friends will not choose to mix around with “clever” friends only. Friends will not regard other friends as “your friends” rather than “our friends”.
There are also people who only think about themselves and would careless about others. They will complain about others without thinking of their own attitudes. And you can also see some quite pampered ones who had to learn to adapt to their lives without having their parents around. Some may even cover their practical results when you ask them for it (just for sharing and copying).
But there are also many kind ones here. And I really adore them! :P Spending them with them just make you think of ways to be a better person. Sharing unhappy and frustrating experiences with them will definitely feel much better. Sharing food is the best though. Hahaha… :P There are also people who can really sing and when they do, they just make your heart melt.. Aw.. AHahha... Maybe I'm exaggerating a little....
And I was also given the chance to meet some guys who really know how to flirt. They will flirt and make you believe in something which wasn’t real at all. They will always find excuses to make them look innocent while you look stupid. In the end, they will just crush you into pieces and your confidence… ended up zero. But still, you need not to worry as you have a lot more friends who care about you and will always be there for you while you heal yourself slowly.
I don’t care how their attitudes are, I will always regard them as friends.
Lessons learnt? Find ways to adapt to those who annoy you sometimes and stay away from guys who flirt.
I love you guys from Kluang and IMU!